Prince Charming + Tito’s

Happy Tuesday y’all!

So, let’s talk Mother’s Day mamas. . . And, let’s be really, really real.

My Mother’s Day definitely did not play out as I had expected.  Did yours?

Throughout all of the years of waiting. . . Waiting for my husband to get home after the end of a long week of traveling, waiting for him to come home after months of training, I have found that the hardest part of the waiting game comes just days before their arrival.  The excitement, the expectations. . . They all start to build up.

Just a lil’ background info for y’all: My husband was on a weekend flight this past weekend, and so Brooklyn Meadow, Lemon, and myself enjoyed a girl’s weekend in.  Filled with pizza dates and tiny adventures, we had greatly anticipated the return of our knight in shining armor.

My mind had switched over to fantasy mode, and I began to enter a dream-like state.  In my head, I had dreamt up the perfect outfit, the perfect hello, the perfect kiss.  In my head, I could see him running to me and engulfing me in a full embrace.  I pictured him holding me tight, never wanting to let go.  A day filled with sharing stories and stealing kisses.  Can y’all tell I am a dreamer or what?

So, on Sunday when I had received the “OK” to leave for the airport, my mind went into overdrive.  My handsome husband in his flight suit was going to walk off the runway, run to me and hold his girls tightly.  We were going to spend the afternoon brunchin’, drinking mimosas on the patio overlooking cornfields.  We would spend the rest of the evening as a family, on a walk, relaxing, appreciating one another.


“Hey babe?  Can we go home so that I can change out of my flight suit?” *Cue Brooklyn Meadow crying, crankily anticipating a nap in the backseat*

My fairytale began to unravel as we got closer and closer to home.

I was discouraged, disappointed, upset.

Needless to say, after getting home, we spent the remainder of the day inside quietly, as my husband napped.

Was I mad as hell?  Yes.  At him.  At the situation.  The day.  Myself.  Yes.

And here is why I love writing so dang much.  Because writing has and had allowed me to reflect on the situation.  It allows (and had allowed) me to see my written perspective against a blank, unbiased canvas.  Without my mind interrupting, I can (and did) truly mediate and reflect on my situation.

My husband didn’t “ruin” my Mother’s Day.  I didn’t ruin it.  No one ruined it.  It just didn’t turn out as I had expected.

I, simply, in the midst of dreaming, had lost sight of my reality.

In my dream-like state, I failed to factor in that my husband worked hard and long hours all weekend.  He was physically and mentally exhausted.  He had an early morning and a set of flights to prepare for the next day.  I, on the other hand, was running on very little sleep and as a result was irritable and on edge.

Often, we brew expectations in our mind automatically and subconsciously.  We simply cannot help it.

In the end gals, we should never release ourself from knowing our self-worth and carrying forth what we know and believe we deserve.  And although our expectations form suddenly and without warning, we must learn to separate our fairytale expectations from reality.  Hold up – I am not saying stop dreaming!  No, no, no.  We must just be mindful.  At the end of the day, life is going to pan out the way it is supposed to pan out ♡

Ultimately y’all, God’s (the Universe’s, whomever or whatever you believe in’s) expectations for our life are sometimes different than our expectations for our life.

So, just ride the wave.  Be thankful.  Practice gratitude.  Give yourself a little grace.  It is okay that you aren’t always super mindful of your blessings in the heat of the moment.  Forgive yourself.  Allow yourself to grow from it. #glowup

And sometimes, you just need to sit back, relax, have a little Tito’s and let life happen.

Much love –

Flourless Peanut Butter Banana Oatmeal Cookies

Flourless Peanut Butter Banana Oatmeal Cookies

Recipe courtesy, Running on Real Food

Y’all this recipe is so freakin’ good 🙌🏼

One bowl. One spatula. Four ingredients. Five minutes prep, 15-minutes bake.

Gluten-free + vegan.

Basically, magic.

For the full-on recipe, and the ins and outs, click here.

Otherwise, y’all can peek below to see the quick n’ easy version. I promise, that once you make these delish cookies once, you’ll never have to reference the recipe again. I swear, it’s like second nature.  Like riding a dang bike.



  • 2 cups quick oats (I used Bob’s Red Mill Old Fashioned Organic Rolled oats);
  • 2 ripe bananas, mashed (I used three organic, medium-sized);
  • 1/2 cup of nut butter of your choice (I used all-natural, organic peanut butter); and lastly, the BEST part hands down,
  • Sprinklin’ of dark chocolate chippies and a dash of pure, organic vanilla extract.

*Next time, I am totally going to add golden, ground milled Flax Seeds


  • Preheat oven to 350°F;
  • Add bananas to mixing bowl, mash;
  • Add the remaining ingredients (I added the chips last) and mix well;
  • Drop spoonfuls of batter onto a pre-greased cookie sheet; and lastly,
  • Bake for 15-minutes until firm and slightly golden brown.

This recipe is honestly perfect for any and all who have a life.  Literally a wholesome, nutritious breakfast, snack, or lunch (or all?) on-the-go, without the hassle or mess.  You gotta try it y’all ♡ And if you do, let a sista know what ya think!

P.S.: I store mine in the fridge!

XO, ACD ♡🦋



Hey y’all!

I’m going to put a twist on tonight’s devotional.

I was heavily inspired by a Zoom call that I had with three beautiful gals from my Faith & Friends (virtual) Book Club.

Rather than praying tonight, I would like for y’all to mediate on the following:

Be still ♡ Give God time

Every time you find yourself needing grounding, a starting point, for when you are faced with hardship (i.e., stress, anxiety, difficult situations), just meditate on the following:

Be still ♡ Give God time


Tonight Lord we pray for the mamas who are lacking self-confidence. Whether they are comparing themselves to other mama’s IRL or on social media, they are constantly filled with self-doubt. This mama is constantly running on E. In the mirror she notices the dark circles under her eyes. Her clothes, nothing fits like it did pre-pregnancy. She has lost her youthful glow. She is tired. Please Lord, remind her that she is beautiful. That she is loved. Help her speak kindly to herself Lord. Show her, that she is more beautiful now than ever. We ask this in Jesus’ name, Amen

Maskcara, what? Why I took the leap of faith + how it has drastically changed my life

Hello y’all! Happy Sunday! What a beautiful freakin’ weekend, hallelujah 🙌🏼

I cannot help but reminisce on how truly wonderful this weekend was.  How was your weekend?

I wanted to take a moment to share with y’all groundbreaking beauty products that have quite literally, changed my life.

I was recently approached by a beauty gal (with a beautiful heart + soul) on Instagram. She had out-of-the-blue reached out to me regarding a semi new-founded beauty and skincare product line. Little did I know at the time, it is truly an all-natural guru + minimalist’s (or as I like to call it, minimal(hot)MESS‘) dream. She had provided me with a glimpse into the magical world of HAC-ing and the revolutionary “5-Minute Face,” which consists of Maskcara’s IIID foundation system.

Like most of y’all when receiving a product-type message, you immediately ward it off. Given that, like most of y’all, you are already in love with the beauty products that you are currently using. And, if not in total love, you are ultra (hm, “Ulta”? How ironic.) comfortable using said products. AND, if you are like me, completely worried that a new product (especially if you have sensitive skin) will cause utter mayhem on your pretty face. I get it. Too much risk with an unknown reward. Why go for it?

Make sure to keep reading for a list of the many, many benefits and why the rewards SO outweigh the (if any) risks. The same risks that y’all take when trying new Sephora-brand name and drugstore beauty products

Weeks had gone by, and quite honestly, I became so frustrated with the lack of time that I had daily, that it took to look just semi decent and somewhat put together. Never mind, glam . . . HA!  I did not have 30-minutes to do my makeup and really and truly take the “adequate” amount of time required for me to apply the layers upon layers (of makeup) so that I looked put together and well-sculpted. Heck, I have 10-15-minutes total to shower, make my hair look somewhat decent (hence the new mom-do), and apply my makeup. So what, that gives me about 5-7-minutes tops to allocate to makeup, huh? Unless you are an expert, no, a freakin’ wizard, how the heck can you start to finish do your makeup in such short a time span?

My frustrations at this point had gotten the best of me, and I had swirled into a makeup-free funk.

Then, the lightbulb went off… Maskcara, what?

I was laying in bed trying to fall asleep when the thought had entered my mind. I became so wrapped up in my thoughts that I literally could not sleep, I was so excited. I had immediately the next morning contacted infamous Instagram girl, and had asked her for more information regarding their products and their Artist program.

From start to finish, the conversation had lasted mere minutes, and it had ended with me impulsively signing on to become an Artist. I cannot describe it, other than it just felt right. It felt as if it were through God’s will, that I was led to this moment.

You’re thinkin’ I’m crazy, right?

Well, what I can tell you, is that I fall more and more in love with this beauty line each and every day. I have more time to spend with my daughter, heck, more time to do the things that I love. And honestly, I have never gotten more compliments… My skin has never looked better. I’m glowing.

I know that I am an exception from the rest. I am super impulsive. I trust my gut. I trust God, truly, just leaving it in His hands.

I guess I wanted to share this with you guys for a number of reasons. . .

  1. One, if you’re like me, HELL YA! You’re not crazy for being impulsive, you are just badass;
  2. Two, trusting your gut is important, but trusting God and his plan is even more important;
  3. When in doubt, just go for it. If you want it badly enough, it will work, because you will make it work; and lastly,
  4. If you have not tried Maskcara beauty yet, what in the heck are you waitin’ for sista! Why fuss over your makeup, when you can spend that saved time, spending time with your loved ones, doing what you love, writing, praying, working out…

So, what are you waiting for?  Don’t just take my word for it, click here to read others’ testimony.

Get out there gorgeous.


  • Founded on the premises that makeup should be fun, quick + easy AND that it should not cover up your natural beauty, but rather, enhance it;
  • Provides buildable coverage, with a weightless and natural finish;
  • Super affordable, comparable with drugstore makeup pricing;
  • Few + natural-rooted ingredients;
  • Ingredients are CRUELTY free, GLUTEN free + PARABEN free;
  • Everything is so gosh darn pretty, literally drool-worthy;
  • Sleek and simple: ONE small palette and ONE double-sided brush to achieve a full face; and lastly, I want to ask you:
  • Hate how foundation (may it be liquid, cream, or powder) drowns out your complexion?  UGH, annoying.  Stuck applying layers and layers of contour, highlight, bronzer, blush and illuminator?  UGH, even more annoying.  Well, you can leave those “UGH” moments at the door, because with Maskcara’s IIID foundation, you’ll be experiencing more “AH” (breath of fresh air) moments.

For y’all wanting more information, be sure to reach out either through the “Contact” section of this online journal, or through messaging on my Instagram page

Have a blessed week!

XO, ACD ♡🦋


Tonight Lord we pray for all of the mamas who live far from their families and loved ones. Please be with them tonight, tomorrow, and everyday Lord. Especially, please be with those mama’s who are singlehandedly raising their child(ren), may it be because they are the sole provider, their husbands travel for a living, or are deployed. Please watch over them, protect them, guide them, and shed your love unto them. Show them Lord your unending light and love and provide them with the strength and fortitude to get through each and everyday. We ask this in Jesus’ name, Amen